PROBLEMHABITS3 BOOKS · 3 FIXES

I start strong, then quit

A strong start usually fades for 1 of 3 reasons: the habit is too big for an ordinary day, 1 missed day turns into a missed month, or willpower runs out at the same hard moment. Each book below fixes 1 of those.

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Fix 1 · Tiny Habits · BJ Fogg

Make it so small you can't fail

Fogg argues that motivation rises and falls, so a habit that needs a lot of it dies on the first tired day. His fix is to shrink the habit until it is easy even on a bad day: floss 1 tooth, do 2 push-ups. Once it sticks, it can grow.

Chapter 3: Ability, Easy Does It

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Cut your habit to a version that takes under 30 seconds. Do only that version this week.

Best if: You start with a big plan and it soon feels like too much.

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Fix 2 · Atomic Habits · James Clear

Never miss twice

Clear's rule: missing once is an accident, missing twice is the start of a new habit. 1 bad day doesn't undo your progress. The second miss in a row is what quietly ends it, so on a hard day do a smaller version instead of nothing.

Chapter 16: How to Stick with Good Habits Every Day

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Decide now what your habit looks like on a bad day. If you miss today, put that version first on tomorrow's list.

Best if: 1 missed day turns into a missed month.

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Fix 3 · The Power of Habit · Charles Duhigg

Plan the hard moment before it comes

Duhigg describes willpower as a muscle that gets tired, so it tends to fail at the painful moments. He tells of rehab patients who wrote down in advance what they would do at their hardest points, and of Starbucks staff who rehearse how to handle an angry customer. A choice made ahead of time runs on habit, not willpower.

Chapter 5: Starbucks and the Habit of Success

Try it today

Write the moment you usually give up, like coming home tired. Next to it, write exactly what you will do in that moment instead.

Best if: You quit at the same tough moment every time.

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Quick answers

Why do I start strong and then quit?

Usually 1 of 3 reasons: the habit is too big for an ordinary day, 1 missed day breaks the chain for good, or willpower runs out at the same hard moment. Tiny Habits, Atomic Habits and The Power of Habit each fix 1 of these.

How do I stay consistent after the first week?

Shrink the habit until it takes under 30 seconds (Tiny Habits), never miss 2 days in a row (Atomic Habits), and write down ahead of time what you will do at your hardest moment (The Power of Habit).

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